tdalton
2004-04-26 00:44:58 UTC
I'm a teacher and have been dating a great guy for about four months
now. He's an accountant with a good firm, has a great sense of humor,
is patient, a good cook, great with my nieces and nephews. Our love
life is fine too.
Last weekend, something interesting happened. It was one of the first
times we've had warm weather where I live (western NY state) and we were
out for drinks. Leaving the place, I took my shoes off and carried
them. "Feet hurt?" he asked and offered to have me wait while he went
to get the car. I just kind of laughed and said something like, oh, get
used to it, I really really like to be barefoot (it's been so cold here
up until now that he's almost never seen me that way). My boyfriend
just smiled and said, well get used to it, I REALLY like your feet!
It seemed like a compliment and we went back to his place, and he gave
me a foot rub for what must have been close to an hour and was sucking
on my toes. In that time, I went from not even thinking twice about it
for a couple moments at the start, to liking it, to REALLY liking it,
to... well, for quite a while there, he could have asked me for anything
and I'd have given it to him. I'd never experienced feelings like that
before.
We were together a few more times this week, and each time, my feet got
"the treatment" and each time it was wonderful beyond belief. And he
hasn't changed in the past week, of course, and neither have my feelings
toward him.
But a tiny, tiny little part of me wonders if this is okay. I mean, "My
boyfriend has a foot fetish" sounds like a Jerry Springer episode. I
haven't talked about this with anyone I know, of course, because I don't
want to embarrass myself or him airing that aspect of our relationship.
99% of me says that a great guy who keeps me happy and satisfied and is
VERY unselfish as a lover is a find and then some. And we did have a
satisfying relationship for the first four months without my feet ever
being part of the equation, at least not that I know of.
The other 1% wonders if this is normal. I mean, I've had a good number
of boyfriends and never remember one being interested in that part of
me. Are there other guys who are that interested in a woman's feet?
As I said, I haven't mentioned this to any friends, and I won't. I can
just imagine at least one friend of mine saying something like "You mean
he's that nice to you and all you have to do is wear sandals and put
your feet in his lap? Watch out, I'm going to steal him!" So maybe I'm
being silly thinking about this for even five seconds?
now. He's an accountant with a good firm, has a great sense of humor,
is patient, a good cook, great with my nieces and nephews. Our love
life is fine too.
Last weekend, something interesting happened. It was one of the first
times we've had warm weather where I live (western NY state) and we were
out for drinks. Leaving the place, I took my shoes off and carried
them. "Feet hurt?" he asked and offered to have me wait while he went
to get the car. I just kind of laughed and said something like, oh, get
used to it, I really really like to be barefoot (it's been so cold here
up until now that he's almost never seen me that way). My boyfriend
just smiled and said, well get used to it, I REALLY like your feet!
It seemed like a compliment and we went back to his place, and he gave
me a foot rub for what must have been close to an hour and was sucking
on my toes. In that time, I went from not even thinking twice about it
for a couple moments at the start, to liking it, to REALLY liking it,
to... well, for quite a while there, he could have asked me for anything
and I'd have given it to him. I'd never experienced feelings like that
before.
We were together a few more times this week, and each time, my feet got
"the treatment" and each time it was wonderful beyond belief. And he
hasn't changed in the past week, of course, and neither have my feelings
toward him.
But a tiny, tiny little part of me wonders if this is okay. I mean, "My
boyfriend has a foot fetish" sounds like a Jerry Springer episode. I
haven't talked about this with anyone I know, of course, because I don't
want to embarrass myself or him airing that aspect of our relationship.
99% of me says that a great guy who keeps me happy and satisfied and is
VERY unselfish as a lover is a find and then some. And we did have a
satisfying relationship for the first four months without my feet ever
being part of the equation, at least not that I know of.
The other 1% wonders if this is normal. I mean, I've had a good number
of boyfriends and never remember one being interested in that part of
me. Are there other guys who are that interested in a woman's feet?
As I said, I haven't mentioned this to any friends, and I won't. I can
just imagine at least one friend of mine saying something like "You mean
he's that nice to you and all you have to do is wear sandals and put
your feet in his lap? Watch out, I'm going to steal him!" So maybe I'm
being silly thinking about this for even five seconds?